Supersex, published in 2002 is the first in a new series of books by Tracey Cox, who visited South Africa last December on a whirlwind tour to promote her latest book, Superdate.To those of you less familiar with this sexy lass, she is described as one of the world’s foremost writers on sex and relationship. All the books under her belt as well as numerous TV appearances and writing columns in newspapers and magazines. Yes, “let’s talk about sexy baby, let’s talk about you and me” as the song by TLC said. Firstly this is a book that all men should read. Not because of the great and explicitly pictures of nakes women (and naked men) but because it gives you great insight into how to please a women sexually. Obviously Tracey Cox, being a woman herself places a little bias on how to please the woman. But my personal experience has taught me that she is spot on. Most men have no idea how to please a women sexually. Dr Robert W. Birch, a retired marital and sex therapist, says that only 30% of women have an orgasm during intercourse and as much as 15% of the female population have never experienced an orgasm!
And as a man I can safely say that men are so easy to please. Come (sic) to think of it we only have to be touched, sucked, stroked and wham, bam, thank you m’am! So how where do we begin? Well first step is to learn how to please your partner. Tracey Cox advises us here on how to touch a naked man or woman. Then we move onto teasing, and here we go into bit more specifics about “telling if he’d be great in bed”, “single vs couple sex”, toyboys, kissing and more.
The chapter entitled Moanzone was my personal favourite. In this section we learn how to give oral sex. It is really important that men realise that most women will only climax when they receive oral sex (or using a vibrator). Now you choose. I would rather give oral sex then have my woman use a vibrator after I’ve climaxed because I believe in giving and receiving pleasure.
All in all reading this book contains a lot of great practical advice. This will satisfy your instant gratification needs. Next step is to persuade your partner to try some of these meneuveres with you. As Jim Carrey says in the Truman Show, “If I don’t see you, good afternoon, good evening and good night.” And I’ll add, “Good sex!”
Tracey Cox is one of the world’s foremost writers on sex and relationships and is also a TV presenter. As well as starring in the UK series of Would Like to Meet, Tracey is also starring in the US version of the show, renamed Date Patrol. Her brand-new show, Under One Roof, airs later this year on ITV, when Tracey turns her hand to solving all the problems living together can cause.
Tracey has a psychology degree and is a regular columnist for The Sunday Times. She also writes a weekly column in Closer magazine. Her books Hot Sex, Hot Relationships and Supersex are international bestsellers and her latest book, Superflirt is due to be published in November. Tracey was born in the UK but spent many years in Australia where she edited Cosmopolitan magazine.
