I will say that dating divorced women will add a whole new dimension to the relationship, especially if she has kids. Even if she doesn’t, she will be carrying baggage from the experience and post experience to last a long time. So a guy has to ask himself if she is worth the “unknown” variables that exist and is he willing to walk into that abyssal.

Now let’s talk about dating a “twice” divorced women who spent 7 years total in marriage, little no intimacy in either one, wanted children but neither marriage provided them, didnt date anyone for three years after the second divorce, was mad at all men, quit her therapy after just a few months, and became dedicated in these years to be alone the rest of her life. In walks a man stage left to who at the time was seemingly “over it” healed and had moved on lady, only to find out several months later that she is overly critical, rigid, harsh, wall up, feared being controlled so everything that was not control she made it out to be control, and demanding…with random bouts of anger, denial, argumentative, with terrible ability to communicate her feelings effectively, not to mention the oddball relationship with her meddlesome mother and mean ass southern racist father. I always had a “run fast” sense about me………..but some women come across as sweet and loving for quite a while, only to serve you up a smorgasbord of #@$#!!# that should have been dealt with in therapy! Two and half years of struggle, up and down, on and off, her one foot in one foot out, walking out with her bags, kicking me out of her place, being put down like dirt, told i was a loser and would never be with another women, blaming me for all the problems in the relationship.

So words of wisdom, unless you are desperate or over 45 years old, dont bother entering the world of the divorced……..there may be exceptions, but you have a better chance winning money in vegas than landing a divorcee without baggage, and any baggage is too much if you ask me.