Life, relationships and all human interactions relate best to the basic principles of economics which is supply and demand. When you have an oversupply of goods e.g. desperate guys trying to get the attention of an attractive woman their value drops very fast in her eyes because they are all doing the same thing to try and impress her. Now imagine a guy who ignores her and talks to other women creating curiosity and interest from her; his value rises because he is in demand and the more other women he speaks to this attractive women will start to become interesting in getting his attention. So you want to avoid group behaviour. Another way to look at this is to keep investing in yourself. And the more you invest in yourself the more attractive you become. And the more you give to yourself, you begin to overflow so that you have more to share with those around you.

Although I’m not a fan of John Gray, this concept is from a quote he makes in the hit movie The Secret. Remember you can contact your friendly neighbourhood Dating Coach here.